All My Dead Friends: A List



All the Dead Guys in My "Deaths" File

These names are roughly organized, mostly by the order they have fallen in my file. Some of these men were my best friends, one was my lover of ten years, some were fuck buddies, some passing ships in the night, some were men I saw on the street, some on video, some I lusted for, some I avoided, some I spoke to, some I noticed every time I passed.

In any case where the name is a link, clicking on it will lead you to the page where that man is most prominently featured. In some cases, it will be only a mention because I do not have a page for the given man yet.

They all share only this: they touched me, and they are dead because of the Plague. In Robin Simpson's phrase, I'm so damned proud of them.

If anyone reading this knows any of the men listed below, please feel free to email me.

I miss every one of these men, whether I loved them or disliked them, whether I knew them or not.


Rick Jacobi
Don Bell, died May 22, 1985 at 34 years of age
Roy Richard, August 28, 1946 - July 27, 1986
Mark Ingram, 1953 - 1986
Charles M. Durham, October 27, 1947 - July 18, 1986
"Joseph" Lazzeri, died September 23, 1986 at 35 years of age
Tom Manzi, died July 16, 1986
Hank Will, May 1951 - June 1987
Tony Izewski, died summer 1987
Cipriano E. Torrez, September 8, 1963 - March 4, 1987
Martin Xero, born Kenneth E. Allison, September 25, 1948 - September 11, 1987
Aman
Randy Notte
Tom
George Parli
Jim Manness, died January 15, 1988
David Marcum, July 26, 1955 - March 6, 1988
Walter Gross, June 2, 1937 - June 10, 1989
Sam D'Allessandro, April 3, 1956 - February 3, 1988
Gene Pelligrini, June 6, 1943 - May 10, 19??
JimEd Thompson, September 18, 1946 - June 21, 1988
Joey Loza, June 25, 1954 - August 13, 1988
Markalan Joplin, died May 31, 1988 at 32 years of age
Paul Joseph Sorrell, March 24, 1953 - May 27, 1988
Neil Stansky, April 20, 19??, at 31 years of age
Matt Fletcher, July 24, 1953 - December 24, 1988
James Allen Rideout, Jr., aka Kurt Marshall, died October 10, 1988, at 22 years of age
Robert Mapplethorpe, March 9, 19?? at 42 years of age
Ed Lavoie, October 14, 1952 - January 24, 1989
John Hobbie, June 14, 1846 - March 21, 1989
Nick Regna, 1957 - February 12, 1989
Michael Merrill, died March 9, 1989 at 38 years of age
Geoff Mains, died June 21, 1989 at 42 years of age
Chris Poole, August 24, 1956 - July 21, 1989
Don Crawford, June 23, 1953 - August 17, 1989
Brian Lee, aka Johnny Dawes, died July 25, 1989 at 36 years of age
Kenny Lackey, July 23, 1954 - September 20, 1989
Tom Smith Buckingham, January 9, 1946 - October 30, 1989
Cynthia Slater, August 7, 1945 - October 26, 1989
John Franz Koopus, 1948 - February 25, 1990
Stan Saunders, March 6, 1955 - July 25, 1990
Issan Dorsey, died September 6, 1990
Jim Jackson, March 28, 19?? at 34 years of age
David Ayers, September 4, 1963 - September 29, 1990
Kevin Price, July 22, 1957 - April 1, 1990
Pattycakes
Dr. John R. Royer (Mad Dr. Jack)
Sailor Billy
David Lewis, October 8, 1951 - August 24, 1990
Jack Green, November 26, 1947 - November 4, 1990
Spike Farris, May 23, 1948 - December 25, 1990
Paul Diamond, July 15, 19??
Keith Haring, died February 16, 1990 at 31 years of age
Bill Hartmann, April 25, 19?? at 38 years of age
Michael Cox, died August 18, 1990 at 35 years of age
Stefen LeCastre, September 17, 1958 - August 20, 1990
Paul Jones, June 5, 1950 - September 20, 1990
Fred Gilbertson, February 20, 1942 - October 31, 1990
Jim Stajduhar, June 4, 1937 - June 20, 1990
David Stuart, September 22, 1930 - January 30, 1991
Geoff Mann, October 22, 1953 - January 5, 1991
Brian Smith, August 14, 1939 - April 20, 1991
Stephen Munnell, died February 17, 1991
Randy Stallings, June 28, 1951 - February 17, 1991
Maurice Flood, June 5, 1941 - February 27, 1991
Mike Hippler, died April 2, 1991 at 39 years of age
Paul Scott, aka Lado, September 21, 1943 - April 2, 1991
Tommy Lasorda Jr., died June 3, 1991 at 33 years of age
Steve Perkins, died July 26, 1991
Mark Dennis, aka Mack McNutt, April 27, 1947 - September 2, 1991
Robert Pyron, aka Lee Ryder, August 3, 1959 - July 10, 1991
Conrad Reny-Ginsberg, June 29, 1954 - September 11, 1991
Leo Ford, died July 1991
Michael Lynch, 1945 - July 9, 1991
Peter McGehee, died September 13, 1991
Robert Douty, May 8, 1954 - September 26, 1991
Hal Newey, July 1938 - October 4, 1991
Hal Herkenhoff
Chris Guinan
Dirk Dykstra
Rick Silva
Steven Cates, aka Joanzi Blackfish, November 30, 1953 - August 20, 1991
Gerry Smith, August 30, 1955 - January 22, 1992
Scott Smitherum, March 14, 1963 - June 14, 1992
Kurt Frank Woodill, January 26, 1943 - May 10, 1992
Alexis Sorel, April 22, 1937 - August 12, 1992
John Canalli, October 29, 1956 - March 25, 1992
Doug Wilson, September 26, 1992
Steve Abbott, 1943 - December 2, 1992
Brian York, aka Wolf, July 27, 1944 - October 21, 1992
Tippi, June 6, 1952 - August 25, 1991
John Avino, aka Jake Corbin, July 7, 1964 - September 27, 1992
Al Parker, died August 17, 1992
Patrick Toner, September 20, 1962 - January 26, 1992
Jamie Hart, died 1993
Gerald Roy (Jerry) Leverson, June 26, 1955 - January 30, 1993
David Pierce, died April 1993
Ed Streeter, November 2, 1933 - May 16, 1993
Gary Gaetano Giuseppe Luciano Bandiera, September 4, 1956 - July 1, 1993
Bob Coglianese, died 1988
Tom Burdick, October 12, 1950 - August 29, 1993
Robin Simpson, died October 15, 1993
Tracy Rhoades, died January 13, 1993 at 32 years of age
Rick Turner, died March 20, 1993 at 39 years of age
Preston Wooten Moseley Jr., M.D. (Woody), died December 2, 1993
John W. Rowberry, September 1, 1948 - December 5, 1993
Tom Buhr, died 1994
Ronald Herzog, August 25, 1942 - February 19, 1994
Barry Cundiff, aka Daddy Bear Rings, February 1, 1950 - July 1, 1994
Alan Hall, January 10, 1943 - July 17, 1994
Jim Crecca, 1961 - September 13, 1994
Sterling Johnson, June 5, 1955 - November 20, 1994
Jude T. Flynn
Michel de La Roche
Robert Ratliff
Michael Rice, aka Giiiirlie, September 3, 1954 - January 11, 1995
Peter Farnsworth Grasty, April 14, 1956 - April 5, 1995
Gary Wagman, aka Ram, died April 21, 1995 at 41 years of age
Kurt Davison, May 29, 1958 - July 21, 1995
Karl Tierney, disappeared October 1995 at 39 years of age
Jerome, died 1995
Jim Hill, aka Sarge, September 11, 1960 - May 9, 1995
Diet Popstitute, né Michael Collins, 1958 - 1995
Alvin J. Maria, April 27, 1956 - January 1, 1996
Abatto Avilez, July 8, 1945 - March 11, 1996
Lendle Spears, May 14, 1960 - March 20, 1996
John T. Konawalski, Jr., January 24, 1954 - April 7, 1996
Peter Adair, died June 27, 1996 at 52 years of age
"Father Frank" Fitch, January 25, 1930 - November 22, 1999


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